

I’ve been reduced to having to finish myself off after he has fallen asleep, and I’m starting to feel fed up, and used. I often find myself lying in the dark after sex, fuming with sexual frustration, as he falls into a peaceful sleep. I struggle to orgasm through penetrative sex, and I need other forms of sexual contact to get me in the mood.Īs soon as he has reached his peak, his participation in an intimate night together is over. He never initiates foreplay, and quite frankly, he doesn’t seem interested in doing anything sexual unless it’s physical sex. I feel like sex with him is a race, and the one who orgasms first is the winner, the loser gets nothing, and the winner is always him.

He never initiates foreplay and doesn’t seem interested in doing anything sexual unless it’s penetrationĮven in the early days of our relationship, he has never been able to satisfy me. He’s kind, intelligent, hilarious, and a financially stable accountant. The idea of marriage and kids are on the table, and I couldn’t think of a better person to spend the rest of my life with.

We live together, his family adore me, and for a year, we’ve been discussing a serious future together. I’ve been with my boyfriend for four and a half years. Sally Brown has advice for a complicated matter He’s kind, hilarious, and financially stable, but selfish in bed. In this Ask Sally column, 32 year old Lisa says, ‘My boyfriend doesn’t satisfy me sexually’.
